My strategy changed with this so... I asked a close family friend if he would like to have a 3some with us who initially thought I was kidding but I teased him by asking if he would be willing to watch a video of her masturbating and he said yes. Then if he would possibly consider a masturbation party with the three of us and what he would enjoy doing to her body, at which point he said seeing her bare chest. I encouraged him to tell me in graphic detail and he would say how he wanted to play with her nipples, fondling and sucking eventually moving between her legs to finger then lick pussy for 30-40'. Told him how much I would love to see him doing that and asked if he would enjoy e a blowjob from herI am a married white male 63 years old and although married for some 37 years, have always fantasized about a warm cock cumming down my throat. I have told her I want to do this but she doesn't approve of it or any other ideas to spice up our sex life.