The thing that ended the marriage was money. I made plenty, that wasn’t the problem. The problem was that she spent it faster than I could make it. She had a spending addiction. I took away her credit cards and access to the bank accounts hoping that would solve the problem. And it did for a while. But then while doing my annual credit check, I found two new credit cards under my name that I didn’t apply for. At first I thought it was scammers, but it turned out to be my wife.